I spent 20 years married to a sociopath. No matter how long I am divorced he keeps finding ways to disrupt my life. The twists, turns and distortions of reality are borderline indescribable. I know what it is like to live with and deal with a monster. Here is my story.
Tuesday, June 9, 2015
What?!?! In?!? The!?! World!?!
I am writing again to
ask you to facilitate, or have someone else facilitate, regular phone contact
between Warren and I. It has now been one month since Judge C gave clear instruction
I was to begin phone contact with Warren. Additionally, Warren's grandparents, John
and Elaine Walton, would like to speak to Warren, either by phone or Skype.
Please let me know what times during the week Warren is available.
As you well know, the
references to spring break 2014 aren't relevant. I was never sent the final
signed order to come from the court, which did NOT include time-sharing over Warren"s
spring break. You knew this but I did not, never having received the final
signed order (I didn't confirm the exclusion of spring break 2014 until I went
to the courthouse to dig the order out of the file while I was in Lexington,
October 2014. At that time you may recall refusing to allow me to spend any
time with Warren).
I was in Virginia
Beach to pick up my son, but he wasn't at the agreed upon location. The
dramatic suitcase in hand-sitting on the curb-waiting scene, as described in
court, didn't occur. Your truck was not there when you said it was, only a
police cruiser and a few cars not belonging to you, off to the side. No Warren.
After driving all that way, I waitied and waited in the lot, and continued to
watch the parking lot where we'd done an exchange a few months before, but Warren
You apparently were repeating
the same stunt you attempted over Warren's spring break 2013 when you filed an
EPO against me. Judge A's admonition to you in August 2013, when you dismissed
the groundless EPO, wouldn't apply in Virginia. Even in this very email chain
you threaten to file a motion against me for harassment - because I'm inquiring
about phone times.
All I wanted was to
spend time with my son, and that's all he wanted as well. For his sake I didn't
agree to a Skype session with a therapist, in order to explain how I was
prevented from seeing him over his spring break.
It's so unfortunate
the court needs to become involved at all, but clearly it's necessary for Warren's
sake. Please comply with Judge C's instruction concerning phone contact.
Additionally, please consider Warren's grandparents would like to speak with
him from time to time. They, like me, miss Warren every day.
Sent from my BlackBerry 10 smartphone on the Rogers network.